Here comes the bride. All in ivory, with ivory shoes, ivory veil and a bouquet in a co-ordinating colour, followed by bridesmaids in the coordinating colour and ivory bouquet. And here comes The Wedding Industrial Complex, ripping you off left right and centre, with plaintive cries of “and surely you’ll be wanting ivory napkins with that?” and “I assume you’ll be wanting the table runners in the co-ordinating colour?”
Say no to The Wedding Industrial Complex. Reject their colour scheme. Give their colour-coordinated price tags the karate chops they deserve.
Instead, choose the only colour scheme they could not in one million years approve of… The Anti Colour Scheme: rainbow. The only rule is, no colour must be the same.
Here’s how to bring rainbows your wedding:
Who could be down on rainbow bridesmaids? Not I.
1. Rainbow bridesmaids – if Sex in the City‘s finest can have non-matching bridesmaids, so can you. Plus, your bridesmaids can choose to wear colours that suit them. They could even wear dresses they already have.
Buttonholes and socks in all sorts of merry colours
2. Ushers each with a differently coloured socks.
3. Different types and colours of flowers at every table. The beauty of this is that you could pick up a dozen different bouquets from your local supermarket, whatever they have in stock, and suddenly it all seems planned.
No one can feel sad at a rainbow wedding.
4. A multi-coloured bouquet. Gerberas, ranunculus or carnations work perfectly here.
5. Rainbow wedding cake. (see earlier post on the joys of the rainbow cake).
Why stick to one colour when you can have five?
6. A non-white dress. Shocking, to some, but more wearable and you’ll probably get something far cheaper that’s far better designed.
6. Any colour stationery. Here’s a secret. No one will remember if your invites match with the rest of your wedding. They just won’t. Is it something you’ve ever double-checked when you’ve arrived at a wedding? No, you were probably too busy worrying about laddering your tights or being late to give it a second thought. Just go with whatever.
The lollipop favour no other wedding could have